YOM
KIPPUR, 5768-2007
Message to Temple Israel, Dover, NH
From Temple President Sharon Brody
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Yontiff…Happy New Year…May the coming year bring health,
happiness and prosperity to each of you and your families and
friends.
I
admit that I sat at my computer at my office this week, trying
to sneak in some “me time” to look at what I might
say to all of you this week. It is Yom Kippur and in many congregations
across the country and around the world, there is a congregational
president or vice president who labored long and hard to come
up with the right words to deliver the usual message…we
need money….open your pockets, open your checkbooks…write
out a big check.
Okay,
you have now had the message delivered that you would have heard
at another congregation. We are not that other congregation or
that other community.
We
are Temple Israel of Dover, NH. Look around you…you don’t
see the same people you would see at those other congregations…we
are unique….because each of you is unique.
Are
you aware of what makes us unique? We were officially founded
in 1938. I think our official historian, Ann Isacoff can verify
through her records that ground was broken for our first home
in May, 1938 . Ann has said that on November 13, 1938 there was
a procession on congregants through the streets of Dover bringing
our Torahs to our first home. Three years ago…the city of
Dover once again witnessed a procession of our congregants carrying
our Torahs up the driveway to our present home.
In
1938 we were affiliated with Orthodox branch of Judaism. Many
of our current members would almost consider that affiliation
barbaric. In the sixties, we began to outgrow our facilities and
we purchased the house at 45 Fourth St in Dover. In 1962…our
uniqueness…our searching, our growing ,our evolving brought
a change and we affiliated with the Conservative branch of Judaism.
We continued to search and change and become more diverse in thought
and action, possibly, and found that we were more aligned with
the Reform movement so in 1983, we affiliate with UAHC or as it
is known today, URJ or Union of Reform Judaism. It has been a
very fortunate match because through this affiliation we have
been able to have spiritual leaders who accepted and approved
and challenged us to be the best we could be…we learned
the importance of community, of tikun olam….repairing the
world…caring for others….of study….not just
until one becomes a bar or bat mitzvah but for a lifetime of study….we
learned to appreciate music that sometimes seems foreign, maybe
because it is…maybe because we just never really listened
to it….but we have gained because of our affiliation with
URJ.
It
has also made it possible to grow to the point that our comfortable
4th Street location was no longer a good match for us. It is sometimes
frightening to make changes but we did. Through the generosity
of community/congregational members we are able to celebrate our
3rd year in this beautiful location. I cannot help but say a Shehechiyano
each time I come up the driveway and see our building….each
time it is like the first time and the wonder of it ,pleases me,
and amazes me. I am grateful to the Krassner family and to Bruce
Samuels for making it all possible.
But
let’s go back to 1938….there were 20 families in the
Dover area that had a dream of Jewish presence on the seacoast.
They brought that dream to a reality with the first congregation.
That dream was not for the present …not only for them and
their needs….but it was a dream for the future that a Jewish
presence would continue on the seacoast and grow and thrive. We
are their dream…we are their reality. Today we are a community
of 120 families. We honor the dream of 70 years ago and promise
to keep the dream alive. Your board of trustees will be sending
messages to all of you to join us as we celebrate our 70th birthday.
To this end….I challenge each family and each friend of
Temple Israel to donate $70.00 or multiples of $70….to kick
off our celebration. We look forward to having a special celebratory
service and special Oneg and be able to donate towards our continuation
in this building by burning the loan.
Your
board of trustees wants very much to burn the building loan agreement
within the next 5 years. Over the next several months there will
be more information coming on how we anticipate completing that
task. Another Bubbe Meiser you say…no….I know we can
do it….we are a dedicated community and we are partners….it
can be done. When we work together all things are possible.
There
is some very exciting news about partnering…..Some of you
may have met a very special friend of Temple Israels…William
Fleece. Bill actually lives in Florida most of the year….I
think it’s because he has to keep an eye on his beloved
Buccaneers….but Bill spends his summers in York, Me. When
he and his wife are in Maine, Bill visits Temple Israel and has
come to like the people he has met here and our uniqueness. Bill
serves as trustee for the Herman Forbes Foundation which provides
grants to Jewish activities and organizations. Bill likes us….and
Bill has offered a challenge grant from the Forbes Foundation,
to help us “Burn the Loan”. I can see that you are
all asking….what is the dollar amount….not so fast….all
information in due time. For the time being…introduce yourself
to Bill….say thank you…..and prepare to meet the challenge.
Bill knows we can do it….he wouldn’t be willing to
work with us if he didn’t believe we could….now it’s
time to roll up your sleeves and be prepared to join in.
Why
should we want to burn the loan agreement….makes good business
sense would be reason enough….but because it makes ethical
and historical sense works too. We have an obligation to pass
on to the generations our history…our values …..our
ethics….but not necessarily our debts.
Look
around this area….it is beautiful…..now it’s
time to say thank you….thank you to those who had the vision
to make this building a reality. Say thank you to Kelly Corson
and Gayle Saunders and the landscaping committee who used their
vision, their talents to produce a long range plan for planned
landscaping for our property….thank you to Craig Stevens
for working with the landscaping committee and overseeing the
beautiful first step plantings at the roadside and in front of
the building ….thank you to the committee for shielding
our eyes from the mechanical workings of the building and providing
us with an aesthically pleasing view. Remember to say thank you
to Marc Weinstein, our building and grounds chair person for making
sure we had a clear path to the pond last week for Tashlich….and
for making sure the building is kept in good repair. Say thank
you to the Sisterhood, the ritual committee, the education committee,
the membership committee for providing everything from name tags,
to challahs, to friendship, to hugs, to phone calls…..they
are the hearts and souls of our community. If you were able to
hear the service more clearly this year….say thank you to
Glynce Kaplan and the entire Kaplan family and Shirley Lempke
for their generous donation to provide an upgrade to our sound
system. Say thank you again to Craig Stevens, Steve Brody, and
Keith Brody for their expertise in ordering the proper system
for our needs and for being able to do the appropriate tweaking
to make it work. Say thank you to Rhonda and Adam for allowing
us as the TI family to intrude into their family to take Rabbi
Karol away for our needs. Say thank you to Jackie Glazier who
is the voice of Temple Israel on the phone and in the office.
She is helpful, and patient and knows her way around the TI community.
Say thank you to the 13 other members of the board of trustees
so serve selflessly because they believe in Temple Israel…and
tenets of Reform Judaism and want to see our community flourish
and prosper so that we can pass it on to our children. Remember
to say thank you to Rabbi Karol….who left the comfort of
the Midwest to come east and lead us on another journey. It is
easy to stay where you are comfortable….but it is brave
and courageous to move into the unknown. Rabbi Karol will understand
soon enough…that leaving his Kansas City Royals is easier
than joining Red Sox Nation….but once you do….you
are joined in love my millions who really know what suffering
is all about.
Thank
you from me to all of you….for opening your arms, your hearts
and allowing me the honor of working with you to grow our temple
community. My original challenge to all of the TI family, still
holds….I want each family, to bring in one new family as
members over the next two years….when we have something
good we have an obligation to share it. From my family to yours….Shana
Tova…may you have an easy fast….and happy, healthy
year and may we share many happy times together...
--
Sharon Brody